|*KoG*| King of Gores - general

Bʟυɛ ♡

I have to stay positive. Things can improve

or can they

Krumplee

Bʟυɛ ♡

Not talking about this recent encounter in particular but in general, I think we need to face the issues a bit more maturely.

You are always contributing to these heated conversations with something objectively right and its unargueable because its common sense. I assume to calm the both sides down but its really annoying, when someone doesnt tell his honest opinion instead just keep writing paragraphs which can not be argued and both sides already know the meaning of it. (edited)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvqUu2fZixI&ab_channel=IssaBreh

IssaBreh

1 Hour of Wise Mystical Tree

Also you wrote this and now you say it was unrelated to the previous argument, so what made you write that?

Tyrone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mvqUu2fZixI&ab_channel=IssaBreh

Real

Always

Krumplee

Also you wrote this and now you say it was unrelated to the previous argument, so what made you write that?

Chill

Krumplee

You are always contributing to these heated conversations with something objectively right and its unargueable because its common sense. I assume to calm the both sides down but its really annoying, when someone doesnt tell his honest opinion instead just keep writing paragraphs which can not be argued and both sides already know the meaning of it. (edited)

I think it is my honest opinion. My brain is a bit "square", I am a very logic/fact based person and all I say/do is in style of this. I understand how it can come across as a bit of like a robot. Sorry if it is completely un-helpful. All I want is to help. I want things to change for the better and I've been on both the player team and the administrative team (in 2 other communities). I know what worked in both those communitites so I'm applying that knowledge here. Also, as a person, I want to make all the environments I'm in more friendly and less toxic. That's kind of my personal goal in life, so I take toxic behaviour serious. That doesn't mean we can't banter and joke. But when it starts to get serious, and we start talking about real change, I would prefer a mature discussion. (edited)

Krumplee

Also you wrote this and now you say it was unrelated to the previous argument, so what made you write that?

What I meant by this statement was: I didn't just say this because of the interaction you had but based on several previous interactions and comments made before. I did not mean that it was unrelated, just that I wasn't specifically talking about yesterday

11:19

And sorry once again for a long paragraph

Length wouldnt be a problem if it would contain personal value

Bʟυɛ ♡

What I meant by this statement was: I didn't just say this because of the interaction you had but based on several previous interactions and comments made before. I did not mean that it was unrelated, just that I wasn't specifically talking about yesterday

Yeah im sure, but from that context the average reader will get to a consequence that harsh language will be punished heavier than passive agressivity and provocating (edited)

Krumplee

Length wouldnt be a problem if it would contain personal value

are you sure you are talking about online discussions krumplee

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GG @komyu, you just advanced to level 7 !

Krumplee

Yeah im sure, but from that context the average reader will get to a consequence that harsh language will be punished heavier than passive agressivity and provocating (edited)

I'm not 100% sure what you're getting at. I hope I'm answering you, but I think of lf it like if someone being a dick and you punch them. Yeah, they were trying to be annoying and get a reaction, and in the end they might deserve it. But the one who punched still get's the jail time.

way too philosophical for an online argument, but keep it up

But, speaking specifically about the interaction yesterday. I think in the start of the conversation, you conducted yourself in a better manner than Avo. He came in a bit too nonchalantly, expecting/assuming the worst and it escalates poorly from there

Smash

way too philosophical for an online argument, but keep it up

Unsure if supportive or not

well, what I'm trying to tell you: You most likely won't get far with a reasonable argumentation online, while also bringing metaphors and philosophical comparisons

12:30

people just wanna insult each other

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Yeah I know. I have a bit of a 'in a perfect world' mentality

sounds tiring tbh

Luckily, I like discussion. healthy discussions

ye, wrong place for that

As I said before, I have hope, things can change for the better

12:34

Hopefully

Smash

well, what I'm trying to tell you: You most likely won't get far with a reasonable argumentation online, while also bringing metaphors and philosophical comparisons

Kinda wrong tbh

12:39

You meet idiots in the real world too, and you cant convince them with any arguments because they are delusional

12:39

And you can find intelligent ppl online too

sure, I would have to specify

Tbh it depends which scenario is appears more often in your life

but if we're talking about this discord or let's say the KoG-community, I'd say most of the discussions here ain't that good (edited)

Yeah most of the discussion

12:41

Because 90% of kog just wanna have fun

12:42

9% just blames admins and avo

12:42

1% tries to offer some help

12:43

But the 1% are count into the 9% most of the time

Bʟυɛ ♡

Yeah I know. I have a bit of a 'in a perfect world' mentality

I wasnt really clear tbh, when i said that your messages doesnt contain personal value, its not completely true i misused the word

12:46

Sorry for that

What i meant is that you send your message in a heated discussion which is objectively right etc.(what i have written above), you dont offer alternative solutions to these problems, and judging by the tone of your messages it should contain at least one

12:49

My england bad, i hope you get what im trying to say

yep, it's understandable

Because everyone can point out problems, but what is really bothering me that you dont provide these solutions, however you are capable of to do

Krumplee

Because everyone can point out problems, but what is really bothering me that you dont provide these solutions, however you are capable of to do

Judging by your intellect

I take no offence to anything you've said @Krumplee so don't worry about that. Right now I still consider myself relatively new to this community. I know how to get solutions, but I feel like there are far more experienced players here that know more than me. So I'm happy to sit back, watch, learn and evaluate from a distance. If that makes sense. We have players like you and Mixi for example. That are still very vocal about issues and obviously want things to change for the better. You have far more experience within KoG than me, so I won't challenge that unless I am confident I bring something new. You mean well, just sometimes get to the point in the 'wrong' way.

Really bad mindset tbh

I will watch and learn until I am confident about my opinion and then I will present and defend it